As I pulled into the parking lot of my apartment this evening I stopped in front of the mailbox to retrieve my mail from the past few days, prior to going upstairs to my apartment. I’m not sure why I hadn’t checked in a few days, I wasn’t avoiding any bills this month. OH YEA!! The holiday hustle and bustle, that must have been it.
So, I opened up my mailbox, and it’s a good thing that I did check today, not much room left to stuff much else into it. Amongst the usual mailbox filler material of insurance statements & circulars, was my Cyberguys catalog and the
local Toyota dealership informing me that they’re interested in selling me a new car since I’ve supposedly paid off my current “Yota”. After weeding through the stuff bound for file 13, I noticed 3 envelopes, two were returned Christmas cards to old school mates, plus one from a school mate that now resides in Tulsa.
Seeing the envelope and card made me think back to just a few years ago, 2005: my 20 year class reunion. When I received the invite to attend the festivities; I initially had my mind set to pass the whole affair. My attitude was funky, and I was becoming a hermit (too tall to be a Hobbit). As I write today’s post, I can’t help but think, even back then, before I had committed to let the Lord right this shipwreck of a life that the Holy Spirit was already at work, prompting me to change my attitude. I wrestled with the decision to go or to not go for several months prior to the big to-do, eventually I either convinced myself or was convinced ( I think more so the latter) to attend.
Attending my class reunion was therapeutic to say the least. I got a chance to interact with some old friends and some old acquaintances, but most importantly; I had taken from the two days of remembering the 80’s, a renewed attitude about relationships, friendships and family. See, once I left town to join the military, I put my school daze & relationships behind me, I didn’t attempt to keep in touch, which eventually become my modus operandi for a lot of future friendships and relationships as well. Having attended the class reunion though was my wake up call, I left with a resolve to at least keep in touch by way of sending Christmas cards to the people I had known so many years ago, some closer than others.
For the past two years, I’ve faithfully cracked open the old address book (it’s really just an Excel spreadsheet) and cranked out CHRISTmas cards with joy in my heart. Fast forward to CHRISTmas 2007.
I started about a week and a half ago getting cards ready for the mail and for local delivery this year . Thank goodness!! In a year’s time the amount of people in my sphere of relationships has grown substantially, specifically
from the church I attend, and I’m not talking about people that you give the “Hey!!! How you doing?….” every Sunday as you frantically do a name search through the cerebral Rolodex, because you haven’t a clue who the old guy & his wife with blue hair are. No.. I’m talking about people that I’ve actually become friends with, brothers and sisters, young and old, married and single, frail and healthy. I’m talking about people that I now have, more than a casual acquaintance with, there’s a relationship brewing.
I happened to be going over a devotional from the 14th (took a little break with all of the CHRISTmas parties to attend and what not last week, so I’m playing catch-up again). The devotional by Rick Renner was titled “Be Affectionate to One Another”, which covered Romans 12:10
Romans 12:10 (KJV)
Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another.
Romans 12:10 (NIV)
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
I’ll save the dissection of the verse and it’s Greek terminology for another time perhaps.
The gist of the message from Romans 12:10 as explained by Renner in his book “Sparkling Gems”, is that Christians ought to embrace the brotherhood, the fellowship of fellow believers in Christ. We should be viewing our “brothers” and “sisters” in the church as just that; brother and sisters belonging to the same family. We should have that love,that affection for each other that resembles family. The love for one another should be sincere, authentic, tender and warm, our desires being only the best for each other.
So often in some of today’s churches, people attend service yet never take the time to get to know their fellow worshipper. We attend service to get the “Holy Checkmark” then bolt from the church like NASCAR drivers heading for the finish line at Taladega, knocking over the old guy and his blue haired wife in the process.
One of the elders at my church uses this analogy about attending and being involved in church: “Church is like a hospital, a place for the sick (spiritually) to come and be healed.” Alright!! I like it, but must we be so sterile toward one another? Much healing yet to be done I suppose.
I’ll leave you with this to consider in light of today’s post from 1st Peter 2:11:
1st Peter 2:11
Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul.
In a strange land with strange customs what could be more welcome than to be among your own kind?
Grace and peace be with you.